Manners are not idle, but the fruit of loyal nature and of noble mind.
-Alfred Lord Tennyson
Etiquette Training
Etiquette training teaches DVCS students to use their words, conduct, and presentation to represent Christ with excellence and bless their neighbor. Each December, Kindergarteners and Upper School students (Grades 7-12) begin their etiquette classes.
Etiquette training includes lessons in traditional and contemporary manners, including eye contact, posture, proper greetings and introductions, the art of conversation and graceful exits, how to escort a lady, dining manners, making a toast, and being present by putting away phones.
Each Spring, our students put their polish to practice at a sophisticated, purposeful Protocol event. Through seven years of etiquette training, we aim to cultivate men and women who embody a pleasant, controlled, and respectful nature. Wherever the Lord may lead them next, we trust that He will use these skills to help them walk in a manner worthy of their calling (Ephesians 4:1).
Etiquette Training
Etiquette training teaches DVCS students to use their words, conduct, and presentation to represent Christ with excellence and bless their neighbor. Each December, Kindergarteners and Upper School students (Grades 7-12) begin their etiquette classes.
Etiquette training includes lessons in traditional and contemporary manners, including eye contact, posture, proper greetings and introductions, the art of conversation and graceful exits, how to escort a lady, dining manners, making a toast, and being present by putting away phones.
Each Spring, our students put their polish to practice at a sophisticated, purposeful Protocol event. Through seven years of etiquette training, we aim to cultivate men and women who embody a pleasant, controlled, and respectful nature. Wherever the Lord may lead them next, we trust that He will use these skills to help them walk in a manner worthy of their calling (Ephesians 4:1).
Protocol Series
A sweet introduction to Christlike manners.
Students begin learning the basics of respectful conversation and attentiveness–laying the groundwork of manners and kindness that is pleasing to the Lord.
Dolled and suited up, our youngest students put their etiquette skills to the test with a tea at the Greenville Country Club. Lush garden views and elegant tablescapes make for the sweetest opportunity to grow in both courtesy and confidence.
Laying the groundwork of Christlike courtesy.
Students are introduced to the principles of etiquette through the lens of humility, service, and respect—building the foundation for a life of honoring others as image-bearers of God.
Social graces are put to practice with a dessert and punch reception at Historic Penn Farms. Students practice approaching and conversing with adults in a cocktail-style engagement before transitioning to seated conversation.
Learning to represent the love of Christ with excellence.
At this stage, students begin to understand the role of etiquette as ambassadors for Christ, growing in self-awareness and interpersonal maturity.
In a semi-formal cocktail reception at Historic Penn Farms, we invite adults in our school community to help students grow in confidence making introductions and thoughtful conversation while balancing drinks and hors d’oeuvres. The evening concludes with a Sight & Sound Theatre, offering a chance to practice respectful conduct in a formal public setting.
Living out a calling to serve and reflect Christ in the world.
As their etiquette formation culminates, students are prepared to step confidently into the world with wisdom and refinement to influence their culture for Christ.
Public officers, professionals, and board members are formally invited to engage our juniors and seniors at this capstone Protocol. After a vibrant off-site cocktail hour, students enjoy a formal seated dinner with opportunities to give toasts. The evening concludes with a visit to the symphony or opera, creating a purposeful, elegant experience.
